I never did gymnastics
too big, surely too clumsy.
Never dance
or trapeze,
Swimming my body was hidden
under
big clothes and cover up.
Sitting watching only graceful
slimness
and knowing I would never
be.
Spending hours watching and seeking
perfection.
Wasting life with a wave of
mascara.
Unsatisfied, frustrated
and torn between my constant yearning
for
acceptance, love, respect
and respect for myself.
Imagining how beautiful I could
be
with only a few needed
changes.
Imagining what I could then
do.
I would be a dancer, a
gymnast.
I'd swim, swim, swim
Instead I hid, hid.
Every day my body image shadowing all
my
thoughts,
controlling many moves.
I know now that I am
beautiful
I know now that beauty is so
much,
ubiquitous in everyone some
place.
I know I've been taught and controlled
by a lie.
I know I am so much more.
I am aware that my tortured mind
and
oppressed actions were
unfair.
But then why do I still stand in front
of the mirror?
It is so ingrained.
Why am I still afraid to dance or
swim,
spend hours primping to
perfection,
satisfied only when feeling
loved
and beautiful?