E M O T I O N S:
Love
He/She Doesn't know I'm on the
Planet
Unaware of your existence?
Are you head over heels in love with someone who doesn't have a clue
that you are a person with a name and a whole life story? We're not talking
movie or rock star crush, here. We're talking about someone at your school,
or a friend of a friend. Someone you see sometimes, maybe even a lot? Maybe
you've tried to attract their attention, but nothing seems to work. What
are you...invisible or something?
Ready to give up or do something drastic!
WAIT!
What Can I Do To Make Him/Her Notice Me?
If you really want to change the situation talk to the person
next time you see him/her. This is a much better way to get a person's
attention than dreaming about them or admiring them from 50 feet away.
Of course, you're going to need a major confidence boost to pull this off!
To work on your insecurity, start getting
yourself pumped. Tell yourself, "Hey, I can do this! No problem. I
mean, he/she's just a person. What do I have to lose?"
That's the idea!
Now plan your timing, and...
Go for it!
(To be read after you make your move.)
So what happened? How did he/she react? Friendly? Embarrassed?
Too cool to talk to you? Are they someone you feel comfortable around? Did
they make you feel glad you started the conversation? Or sorry you opened
your big mouth?
Think about what happened. What does it tell you about this person and
your chances for a relationship. Now, what do you want to do next?
If you need more specific help, write to
Hey Terra!
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